Something to Consider: Why does God love me so much, even to the point of dying on the cross for me?
Christians and non-Christians alike may know of this renowned Bible verse, John 3:16.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not
perish but have eternal life.”
But... why? Why in the world would an all-powerful, all-knowing, infinite being like God love us,
human beings? What was the point in Jesus enduring that painful persecution and ultimately
being hung and killed on a cross for us? Why does God love us that much?
It seems completely absurd but, when it comes down to the truth, it’s relatively straightforward:
God loves us because He is love. God is the very root and definition of love (1 John 4:8, 16).
You may be thinking, “How can someone just be love?” But don’t worry, because even those
who have been believers of Christ for many years struggle to fully understand the depth of
God’s love and how it works; it’s that wide and great and deep. But, we can try to have a better
understanding by going back to the beginning, back to God’s original intention of our
relationship with Him.
“Then God said, ‘Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion
over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the
earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.’ So God created man in his own
image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them” (Gen.
1:26-27).
One of the main reasons I believe God loves us is because He created us. We are not merely
animals roaming this Earth without a purpose, nor are we the equivalent to any other creature
on this earth. We were made in God’s image so we have all been designed with a specific
intention and to be a reflection of Himself, the perfect, almighty God.
Although the following comparison comes nothing close to the love that God has for us, the best
way for me to imagine it would be the relationship between a parent and child.
A loving parent does everything in their power to care for their child. Even before the baby is
born, before the parents even know what the baby looks like or what the child’s personality will
be like, the parents are usually already in preparation mode. From frantically buying all the
baby’s necessities (crib, stroller, diapers, baby bottles, etc.) to reading and researching anything
and everything about how to raise a child, all of the parents’ time and energy goes into caring for
their coming baby.
But the work doesn’t stop there. Once the baby is born, the parents are doing everything in their
power to keep the baby happy, safe, well-fed and cared for. To go even further, the work still
doesn’t stop there. As the child grows and experiences new stages of life, the parents are right
there beside them – guiding them, teaching them, disciplining them – all out of their love for the
child.
The baby didn’t do anything to deserve the parents’ love. It was simply brought into existence by
the parents. Despite the countless headaches and heartaches the child may continue to give
the parents as they grow, the parents have this love for the child because they are the parents’
precious creation.
There are obvious and numerous exceptions to this example and it may not be a perfect, nor
remotely close, representation that many people can relate to. However, I believe this is the
closest we can get to visualizing a small piece of what God’s heart may be like towards us.
God created us and He desires for us to be with Him. This is why He provided a way, through
Jesus’ death on the cross, for us to be reunited with Him again. We did absolutely nothing to
deserve it and we, in fact, deserve the complete opposite. We were bound for death and
destruction, but God made a way for us to have complete salvation through His love.
And the best part is, there is nothing that can come between us and His love for us.
“No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure
that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come,
nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to
separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom. 8:37-39).
Some more things to consider:
1. Do you feel loved by God?
2. Can you think of a time when you felt God’s love in your life?
3. How can you love God?
SCRIPTURE:
Genesis 1:26-27 (ESV)
“Then God said, ‘Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have
dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and
over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.’ So God created man
in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”
John 3:16-18 (ESV)
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him
should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn
the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is
not condemned, but whoever does not believe is already, because he has not believed in the
name of the only Son of God.”
Romans 8:37-39 (ESV)
“No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am
sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor
powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from
the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
1 John 4:7 (ESV)
“Beloved let us love one another, for love is from God and whoever loves has been born
of God and knows God.”
1 John 4:16 (ESV)
“So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and
whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.”
1 John 4:19 (ESV)
“We love because he first loved us.”
“Something to Consider” is a thought-process through the lens of the Bible, helping believers
process current issues pertaining to the culture of our time.
Eunice Sung
Journalist
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